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5 Things I've Learned From 2017

2017 is great. 
I was tested with a lot of things basically. But I had so much fun this year! 
There are 10 things or valuable lessons that I've learned throughout this amazing year.

1) Say "NO" more often. Say "YES" less.
I'd say yes to the things that would help me to grow. I'd say no to the things that stopped my self-growth. I learned that sometimes you have to say yes to the unknowns. Even like you are afraid of the uncertainties in life. Saying yes means you are up for the struggles. 
But if the struggles should let you grow into the whole new person. The struggles should be worth the pain. But sometimes we have to think wisely before we make a decision. Growing up means we are able to make our own decisions. It doesn't matter if the decisions are going to make us or break us. It's our own decisions. 
Saying no is okay. We have to say no to things that no longer help us to grow. We have to say no to those people who used us for their benef…

Coping Things in 2017

There are few things bothering my mind these days.
I don’t know why but I have a tendency to overthink about every single thing happened in my life. Good or bad things, it doesn’t matter. I will overthink and I will be affected by it.
BEING ALONE
I always scared that I will end being alone. Being alone is okay but the thought of everyone is leaving scared me to death. I am scared that nobody is going to be there for me. As for now, I have the greatest support in my life. I have my family and a small circle of friends. I can rely on them any day.
EXPECTATIONS
I think growing up, we only need those people who can please us and not expecting too much from us. Because for me, I hate when people expect too much from me and expect me to do things for them. I might sound selfish but that’s the truth, I hate when people think I can do things for them. I will only do it willingly for someone I love or adore. I won’t do something or show my efforts for someone who I am not into. I am very honest wi…